
Sometimes I feel like singleness is everywhere these days. We're either talking about, blogging about, or wishing we were no longer in this life stage. I think it's especially hard when we see people enjoying the stage of life that we're not in but want to be so. so. so badly.
I wish I could say that I'll get married someday. I wish I could say that I'll have three or four kids (named Callen, Elliott, Hannah, and Maya) running around my feet as I embrace my husband after a hard day's work. I wish I could say all of that was true.
But truth is, that's my plan. The plan that I have for myself. And truth be told, this life, this life that I too often think is mine really isn't. That's not to say that God is controlling my every move like a robot, but He does have plans for me. I believe that God gives us complete control over our own lives, giving us freedom to follow Him or to follow others. And for me, it's all too easy to fall into that rut of following or desiring what others have.

And being single is getting better as time goes on. I still have those days now and then but it's also been a good push for me to further my relationship in Him and with others. My singleness has actually been a true blessing as I've had the opportunity connect with other bloggers who share and can relate to my singleton status. This time last year, I never could have imagined my struggles would turn into friendships. And even though there are things and places I'd rather be right now, I'm truly enjoying my time. And the more I find myself digging into the Word, the less time I find myself digging into my dreams.

But then again, the entire Bible is.
Speak to my soul! I love the truth in your words. I've been feeling my singleness lately, but then I am reminded that God is making me for someone special.
ReplyDeleteAmen! That is definitely the truth. God is not only working in us but in our future husbands, too right now. I admit, this season between Christmas and Valentine's Day is especially hard for me. But without this season in my life, I might not have met and connected with you! :)
DeleteAnd I'm so glad we've connected! My single lady friends and I have actually just started having once a month date nights with each other to encourage our spirits.
DeleteThat's awesome and a wonderful idea! I hope you blog about those date nights!
DeleteI love the 1st Corinthians scriptures you posted. :) Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteReading through the New Testament again has been such a challenge and blessing for me this year! I've found that Romans and 1st Corinthians have some really great verses. :)
Delete2 Cor 1:3-5 is my favorite verse in Cor.
DeleteOoh, that's a GOOD one. Thanks for sharing it! I just got started reading through 2nd Corinthians, and I'm sure I underlined and circled that verse. Unfortunately, my memory is failing me right now. But I'll definitely go read it again tonight!
DeleteSuch a beautiful post, Kiki! I've been really trying to focus on embracing my singleness this year. God says it's a gift! It means we have an undivided heart. And yet, I feel like mine is still divided somehow. I find myself giving parts of my heart to things that just don't compare to the Lord, and this year I want to focus on recentering my heart on Him!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the sweet encouragement, friend!
Oh, thank you! Being single is definitely a blessing in disguise. It can be sooo hard to find happiness, but when I do, it's amazing. I definitely have those days, but it always helps to know that I'm not in this singleton life alone!
DeleteThank you for sharing your heart! :)
such good, true words.
ReplyDeletenow that I'm married I know that being married won't "fix" me or be the key to everything.
it's an awesome, fun, happy thing and I'm thankful for it- but without the years of being single, wondering, dating, engaged....it wouldn't be the same grand thing.
God knew that. and He's got that same big-picture thing going for you. keep up the good work :)
That's such a great perspective on marriage and one that I've never considered until now! Sometimes I get so focused on the future that I forget all the changes that come with a relationship/marriage. Marriage really is grand, isn't it? Thank you for giving me something to enjoy now and look forward to in the future. :)
DeleteI look forward to checking out your blog, too!