tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post1836588217460287762..comments2024-03-12T13:52:44.046-07:00Comments on IN ITS TIME: BLOG TALK: ON READER ETIQUETTE. Kikihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09995732867958680921noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-50740643472219097942015-02-28T15:32:23.847-08:002015-02-28T15:32:23.847-08:00I would so agree with you when it comes to lengthy...I would so agree with you when it comes to lengthy comments. Those are my faves! I think they really show how much thought and care is coming behind whoever wrote it and it really does make for the best conversation, too. Many of my friendships in the blogworld are from the long comments and honest posts, too! :) <br /><br /><br />And I've also struggled with those one-liner comments. I will usually say something like "thanks!" but other than that, it's hard for me to come up with a long-ish comment in return!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-36994557686588174152015-02-28T15:30:37.450-08:002015-02-28T15:30:37.450-08:00YESSSS. I definitely get what you mean about tryin...YESSSS. I definitely get what you mean about trying to share the love around. It's part of the reason why I started doing my Friday Bits and Pieces posts and why I will use Twitter for it, too. :) <br /><br /><br />And another huge yes to short novels for comments. Those are the best!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-78179303247334806222015-02-25T22:24:13.887-08:002015-02-25T22:24:13.887-08:00Beka you are so nice- that's sweet of you! You...Beka you are so nice- that's sweet of you! You guys make it easy for me to leave good comments because you write such fun/interesting/quality stuff! :)Sarah @ Sometimesphotojenikhttp://www.sometimesphotojenik.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-79903915353175965052015-02-25T22:23:20.488-08:002015-02-25T22:23:20.488-08:00You are too sweet girl :) Im glad we agree on what...You are too sweet girl :) Im glad we agree on what makes a good comment :)Sarah @ Sometimesphotojenikhttp://www.sometimesphotojenik.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-90516003679185767022015-02-25T15:51:02.059-08:002015-02-25T15:51:02.059-08:00I have occasionally left short novels as comments,...I have occasionally left short novels as comments, so I totally know what you mean! <br /><br /><br />As a blog reader, I try to share posts I love with my networks. I think if a blogger has taken the time to create something amazing, the least I can do is share it to Twitter, Facebook, or Pinterest. Rarely all three, though...Brita Longhttp://bellebrita.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-33801677711931845562015-02-25T06:43:35.006-08:002015-02-25T06:43:35.006-08:00PS - Sarah I will tell you that your comments are ...PS - Sarah I will tell you that your comments are one of my favorites on my blog! You are always thoughtful and considerate when commenting and I love it!Beka Johnsonhttp://www.sunshine2thesquareinch.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-71212246722152069052015-02-25T06:41:49.188-08:002015-02-25T06:41:49.188-08:00I like this post and I like the perspective you to...I like this post and I like the perspective you took from the readers view point. <br /><br /><br />I honestly love love love long lengthy comments. I think that a lot of my friendships that have developed through blogging are in part because of the lengthy comments that turn into e-mails and then friendships. <br /><br /><br />I'll be honest - when someone writes a "great post" comment I don't really know what to say. I'm thankful they took the time to read my post, which maybe that is exactly what I should say =)Beka Johnsonhttp://www.sunshine2thesquareinch.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-11742073024122957832015-02-24T20:18:07.616-08:002015-02-24T20:18:07.616-08:00Aw, Aida you are soooo sweet. :) I completely agre...Aw, Aida you are soooo sweet. :) I completely agree with your thoughts, too! I think that I tend to stray away from long comments sometimes just because I wonder if I'll ramble or anything. But like you said, since I LOVE long comments, long comments it is--even if I DO ramble, haha. <br /><br /><br />Thank you so much for reading AND commenting! I have loved getting to know you and look forward to getting to know you better!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-11254039805241100342015-02-24T18:44:16.603-08:002015-02-24T18:44:16.603-08:00I completely agree with everything you wrote here....I completely agree with everything you wrote here. I sometimes refrain from writing a comment that is too long because I guess I think it can come off as too eager...but then again I love when people write from their heart in the comments of my blog. So I totally see where you're coming from when you say that you try to leave what you'd want to read.<br />I've been loving your blog, Kiki! What I've been reading is just so genuine. Love this post :)Adia // Love, An Introverthttp://loveanintrovert.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-20713089215797602752015-02-24T17:22:55.551-08:002015-02-24T17:22:55.551-08:00I totally agree with you - although I am totally g...I totally agree with you - although I am totally guilty of many short comments. Not because I don't want to talk to someone, but many times I start to overthink what I am typing and shy away from anything that could be considered too forward and/or rambling. I think this might cause me to miss out on making some really lovely friends though, so I'm going to try and be more thoughtful with my comments from now on, and say the things I really want to say! And what I want to say about this post is: I LOVE all these unique topics you come up with! You are like a content machine, and the best part is that it is all so genuine!Kelly Del Vallehttp://www.kellydelvalle.net/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-10920497785255350042015-02-24T14:51:41.724-08:002015-02-24T14:51:41.724-08:00I think we all are! At least I am, too! :) I wrote...I think we all are! At least I am, too! :) I wrote this in another comment, but I think I prefer the longer comments because they tend to lend themselves to being more thoughtful and heartfelt--and I think it's simply because they just take a second or two more to write!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-49457444339644203502015-02-24T14:50:42.179-08:002015-02-24T14:50:42.179-08:00I agree, the length doesn't matter to me as mu...I agree, the length doesn't matter to me as much as the content does. I just think that paragraph comments (like yours!) tend to lend themselves to being more thoughtful because they take longer to create. <br /><br /><br />And I would totally add yours to my list! It's one of my blog pet peeves to see people leave comments that ignore the content. :)Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-81806238713650640072015-02-24T12:53:49.672-08:002015-02-24T12:53:49.672-08:00I love these thoughts! I am guilty of short "...I love these thoughts! I am guilty of short "so cute" comments but I try to be heartfelt, I know as a blogger I love an appreciate receiving these comments and I love to go check out bloggers that leave comments like this.Kendra Castillohttp://www.openspacesblog.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-60593088041732203662015-02-23T20:28:22.589-08:002015-02-23T20:28:22.589-08:00I totally agree with this! Paragraph comments alwa...I totally agree with this! Paragraph comments always warm my heart :-) Even if a comment isn't long, I love when it's thoughtful; any comment that reflects a reader having read the whole post is a win as far as I'm concerned. I think my reader etiquette is basically "don't comment if you didn't actually read it." Not all of my posts are very serious, but when I do write seriously, there's nothing worse than getting an "I like the picture" type comment that completely ignores the content!Jaydanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-33610909312690168712015-02-23T20:00:18.219-08:002015-02-23T20:00:18.219-08:00Good point about getting exhausted over trying to ...Good point about getting exhausted over trying to comment on EVERYTHING. As much as I want to, I just can't do everything! I've actually had to cut down on how often I read blogs because I've found that when I try to read blogs every day (while working, especially), I just don't get a chance to really read them. So I'll often skim and then I click onto the next blog. <br /><br /><br />And girl, you are the same way! I love reading your comments and I always know they're going to be ones from the heart--especially when it comes to faith and singleness! :)Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-56864494577686827522015-02-23T19:38:30.171-08:002015-02-23T19:38:30.171-08:00I agree with you. I think it depends on the type o...I agree with you. I think it depends on the type of post that was written or what the subject was. I also like meaningful comments, so those are the ones that I would want as well. I usually read a lot of posts, but will really only comment on the ones I feel led to, that really stuck out to me, etc. When I first started blogging, I would usually comment on every post I read....then I realized that that was kind of exhausting and not really necessary. My favorite comments are the ones that are genuine and lead to deeper conversations, e-mails, etc. And I have to agree with what Jenny said below, you definitely write as you preach and I always look forward to your comments. No pressure to be more awesome or anything, it really does come natural for you. :)Jess Elysehttp://polishedarrow.weebly.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-45546813781546496272015-02-23T19:17:22.451-08:002015-02-23T19:17:22.451-08:00I love that you noted the fact that bloggers take ...I love that you noted the fact that bloggers take time/energy to create content. I find that the posts that require the most energy and time out of me are the ones that people are more inclined to respond to. And maybe that's just a sign that quality is better than quantity? :)<br /><br /><br />And I agree, it IS amazing how someone's blog posts can inspire future blog posts. I've found that to be true when I write posts myself!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-23376087904927709182015-02-23T19:15:47.083-08:002015-02-23T19:15:47.083-08:00You said it! If I don't leave a comment, it...You said it! If I don't leave a comment, it's not that I didn't like it (I hope that people don't think that of me!) but like you, I just don't always have a ton to say. :)Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-55232070651591767162015-02-23T19:15:04.713-08:002015-02-23T19:15:04.713-08:00I know EXACTLY what you're saying. There are t...I know EXACTLY what you're saying. There are times when I get (or read comments on other blogs) where people are simply saying "I love this!" and then add in a "Come follow me!" at the end. And I have a feeling a lot of times, they really just want to announce their presence. That sounds wayyyy ruder than I wanted it to, but I think that bloggers deserve comments that are real, even if they are short responses!<br /><br /><br />I LOVE what you said about maybe cutting down on blogs that you read. I think that it's an important thing to really think about when it comes to blog reading. I tend to go through the blogs that I visit on a more daily basis every couple months and try to cut it down so that I can just have it be more manageable. But it's hard to really put quality over quantity into practice!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-29945087977275447342015-02-23T19:11:36.406-08:002015-02-23T19:11:36.406-08:00Girl, I think we ALLLL are. I do that here and the...Girl, I think we ALLLL are. I do that here and there because there are times and posts where there just isn't much more to say and I just want the blogger to know that I read/appreciated their post. <br /><br /><br />I, too, have times where I won't leave a response at all--but that doesn't mean I don't read the posts!<br /><br /><br />And for the record, your swoooonnnn responses are some of my faves. It's such an original yet perfect response for posts!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-36793944614718355192015-02-23T19:09:43.284-08:002015-02-23T19:09:43.284-08:00Same goes for you, Amanda!Same goes for you, Amanda!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-64826826735706450412015-02-23T19:09:33.269-08:002015-02-23T19:09:33.269-08:00I definitely do the scroll back and forth thing fo...I definitely do the scroll back and forth thing for posts that I read! I find myself doing that especially for the posts in the Circle and for other link-ups, too because I tend to visit a lot of blogs in a shorter period of time than normal. <br /><br /><br />And thank you for the sweet words about my own comments! I feel like YOU leave wonderful comments as well! I love that your comments really respond to my posts and are from the heart, too. Those are my kind of comments. :)Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-2631135580157881522015-02-23T19:08:01.367-08:002015-02-23T19:08:01.367-08:00Girl, you are a gem yourself. Seriously. I was a l...Girl, you are a gem yourself. Seriously. I was a little unsure about creating a blog post like this because I think it's something that people, well, all have their own opinions on and I hate creating conflict. BUT, I love it when I hear from people like you who remind me that I'm not the only one with the same thoughts and opinions. :)<br /><br /><br />Also, I often stray away from commenting at all for larger blogs because I, too, feel like they likely won't read them. Which, is really weird because it's often not true, but still. Glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way!Kikihttp://www.initstimeblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-84518559775091302492015-02-23T15:50:10.307-08:002015-02-23T15:50:10.307-08:00Haha thanks Amanda! :)Haha thanks Amanda! :)Sarah @ Sometimesphotojenikhttp://www.sometimesphotojenik.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7858077928947631725.post-28282965076273370352015-02-23T14:46:05.889-08:002015-02-23T14:46:05.889-08:00Can I just affirm that you definitely (write) as y...Can I just affirm that you definitely (write) as you preach?! :) You have always, always, always left the most thoughtful, genuine, and kind comments and I've always admired you for that. Even the way you respond to others' comments always goes beyond just a thank you but you continue the convo! How you know exactly what to say is beyond me but... You are a gem. <br /><br />I think sometimes I lean away from longer paragraphs (especially when bloggers have larger followings) because I doubt they'll even read what I have to say! Do you ever feel that way?Jennyhttp://www.coffeeandhoneycomb.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com